December 8 – Steve’s Surprise 60th BD party
Michelle (Daniel Storey) and I SOOO pulled off the surprise party! Were it not for her covert assistance, I do not think I would have been successful.
On December 4, Steve gave me a premise to return to Charlotte Amalie on December 8, (Steve said he wanted to see Oasis of the Seas come into port on her maiden voyage), and my planning began in earnest. Emailing guests and Herve’s Restaurant in Charlotte Amalie, I instructed everyone to direct their communication to Michelle, bypassing a suspicious Steve’s inquiries into our email “sent folder”.
However, once the plan was set to motion, I faced 4 days of waffling about whether Steve really wanted to come back to after all, and if he did come back, whether he wanted to do anything for his BD. He finally acquiesced and agreed to my casual suggestion we have dinner at Herve’s, a place we had eaten at before and thoroughly enjoyed.
Once we returned to St. Thomas, however, he again said he was unsure where he wanted to go to dinner, or even IF he wanted to go. It was now December 7, time was ticking and I finally had to cover my bases admitting I had already made dinner reservations for the two of us, sneakily adding if he preferred another place that was fine with me.
He waffled again, saying he did not want anything fancy…that he preferred to go to Shipwreck Tavern for a hamburger, repeating he really did not want to do anything. I told him whatever he wanted to do was, once again, fine with me, that I would just have to cancel our reservations (and, unbeknownst to him, scramble like mad to rearrange everything). However, I explained I could not cancel the reservations at that time as it was Monday and the restaurant was not open…BIG fib!
Up until the afternoon of the big event, he still had not committed to Herve’s. It was touch and go, but I just remained calm not wishing to raise suspicions, repeating my mantra "whatever you want to do, Honey…" Around 4 PM, (yes, December 8) he finally relented and agreed to go to dinner. WHEW!
Reservations were at 6:30. Steve of course wanted to go early, closer to 6:00. I hemmed and hawed, putting on make-up last minute, delaying our departure for fear of running into party guests and ruining the surprise. Sure enough, just as we arrived at the dinghy dock at about 6:15, three party guests simultaneously arrived, prudently docking well away from us.
They scurried onto the dock and made a mad dash across the street to try to beat us to the restaurant. Traipsing slowly up the street, trying to buy time, I told Steve I could not walk very fast as my sandals were loose and slipping on my feet. As I spied the 3 guests moving slightly ahead of us up the street, I stopped to take a couple of pictures of Christmas lights, telling Steve it would be too dark later to get good exposure for the camera.
When we arrived at the restaurant, the Maitre D invited us to sit and enjoy a cocktail. This intervention allowed another party guest to vacate his seat at the bar and skulk into the dining area unseen. At last led to the table, cruising friends Benno/Marlene (DIESEL DUCK), Dave/Michelle (DANIEL STOREY), Dick/Jane (CHEETAH II), Britt/Teri (SEA OTTER) and Tom (LONE STAR) shouted a resounding "Happy Birthday".
Steve was COMPLETELY surprised! He had NO IDEA! This was the first time in 33 years I have ever been able to pull off a surprise party…now Steve frets I have learned to fib too well J
Surprisingly, I think Steve actually had a very good time. Our waiter was a stitch, very big man who described the dinner specials with such enthusiastic detail you could swear he was almost salivating. (Steve even reached up once in jest to dab imaginary drool from the man’s chin with a dinner napkin) He could have been Emeril Legasse serving us dinner for the many times he exclaimed "let’s take it up a notch" and "BAM, BAM, BAM!"
He prepared tableside a warm bacon/balsamic-vinegar/sherry/cointreau dressing set aflame before tossing with fresh spinach, a salad large enough to serve the entire group. It was yummy. Half the guests had the fillet (topped with a creamy Roquefort sauce) and grilled lobster, paired with fresh asparagus and sautéed fingerling potatoes. (More YUM factor) Several guests had the freshly caught pinenut/sundried tomato encrusted grouper. Benno had Steak au Poivre, also prepared tableside. Marlene had duck. Everyone raved about the food. Service was great, wine and water glasses kept well topped, food quickly served and plates promptly cleared.
Everyone ordered dessert, varying from bananas flambé (another delightful tableside performance), passion fruit cheesecake (extraordinary, even though it was more mousse-like than cheesecake like), and a chocolate something-or-other. The restaurant staff also served Steve a complimentary, tiny chocolate mousse in a chocolate cup with candle burning brightly, all presented atop a plate decorated with a strawberry configured into a rose and with Happy Birthday written in chocolate. The presentation inspired a rousing chorus of Happy Birthday…
Earlier, I had mentioned to the waiter that today was also Britt’s BD, and the day before was Jane’s. Much to everyone’s surprise and delight, after the presentation of Steve’s complimentary dessert, Britt and Jane received one, too. More singing, sincere congratulations, opening of Steve’s presents and the evening ended. It was a great success. The dinner was fabulous, the company great and many good pictures taken to commemorate the event.
LAST BUT NOT LEAST, another funny story:
Jane was shopping for birthday cards, Dave tagged along. While Jane was wandering about the store Dave found what he thought to be the PERFECT card, but since it was Jane’s idea to go shopping he did not scarf it up. He waited for her to peruse the cards and, sure enough, she picked the same card Dave had wanted. Later, Dave and Teri were in the same store. Dave showed Teri the card, pining how he had wanted to buy it, but had left it for Jane. Teri suggested he buy it anyway, as did she.
After dinner, at the giving of gifts, Michelle made sure Steve opened Dave/Michelle’s gift first, ensuring Steve would read their card before the others. As Steve read the card, Jane’s face showed utter shock seeing her card had been duplicated…but she gamely said nothing. Next gift up was Dick/Jane’s present and after opening the card, revealing it identical to the first, Dave laughed. He told everyone the story of how he had found it first, but still allowed Jane to buy it before him. In exchange for his gallantry, he resolved he would just have Steve open Dave’s card before Jane’s. Next up was Britt/Teri’s gift. Steve joked it was probably the same card, and Michelle asked, "How could that be? The envelope is a different color…" Dave, feigning innocence, dared Steve that if it DID happen to be the same card, Steve was obligated to moon them. Steve accepted the dare…what a set-up…and you can guess what next happened…there are pictures to prove it…
Luckily, we were in a room by ourselves, wait-staff not in attendance. Apparently turning 60 does not ensure one has become a mature adult…